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The hole in my heart.
Sunday, April 22, 2012, 1:10 AM
You’ll get over it…” It’s the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life forever. You don’t get over it because ‘it” is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it? The uniqueness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not made undone by death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no one else can fit it. Why would I want them to?
-  LE LOVE 
"This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no one else can fit it.". 

The problem lies there, no one else can fit. It is never the same. The memories you created and shared with that special someone, you can't expect to recreate it with the next person that comes along. For the very exact reason that every individual is different. 

This hole left in your heart; it never heals nor does it stitch itself up. It only decreases in its size. Someone else comes along, makes you happy, loves you and helps you make this hole left in your heart smaller. Yet it never goes away, because this person who broke your heart will always be at the back of your mind till the end of your life. There will be days or nights that you will be reminded of him or her. That is just the way humans are. Memories are not destroyed. 

So at the end of the day, my dear friend, I'd just like to tell you. It's not wrong to relive and take a walk down this memory lane. But do remember to walk back to reality. 

There may not be any sense at all in what I wrote but I'm sure one or two of you might agree with me. 

I'm no love guru, this is no advice. It's just a gentle reminder, for you and for me.